You have been on your spiritual journey for a quite awhile. You are pretty confident you have healed your unresolved issues from childhood and/or past relationships. You put in a lot of hard work. You are a different person than when you started. Some of us chose to do this journey alone. Stay out of relationships to heal and not have any distractions. This time alone you may even have stayed celibate. This gives you a chance to concentrate totally on yourself. You feel pretty proud of all the work you have done, some may think that all their healing is done.

Well surprise, you aren’t done not by a long shot. The Universe has other plans your twinflame. Every relationship you have had in your life has been practice and preparing you for this one. I have read many articles on the stages of a twinflame relationship. Those steps are not set in stone. Every twinflame relationship is different and unique but one thing is for sure it is life changing. Intense lessons and healing will result if you and your twin hang in there through the up’s and down’s.

In the beginning there is an intense attraction. A magnetic pull it is my belief that the magnetic pull is the two halves of one soul wanting to unite. This is way beyond lust or just a physical attraction. This is an intense soul attraction in every way. If it is a romantic relationship the sex is a whole new level you have never experienced before it’s soul sex. You can feel it your soul. Your twin feels it too. Most likely one twin will be a lot more spiritually advanced and will kind of know what is going on. The less advanced twin will not understand and will say “I have never felt like this before. I don’t understand what is happening. Why sex is so different with you?”.  The magnetic pull of your souls is intense and cannot be explained. Of course this period will end but there is a bond that took place. Some say an unbreakable bond.

Then the triggers start they are quite painful. Some twins run during this period called the separation stage. Some do not run and chose to stay together and ride out the storm. If twins stay together this whole process and the pain will end faster. You will learn the lessons and conquer the triggers together. We all know that running from pain never works out well.  You just delay the inevitable. These issues will come back to be healed.

The purpose of triggers is to bring about healing to unresolved issues from your past. Triggers are a chance for you to do everything different that you did before. Which obviously did not work for you or none of this would be happening. If you have abandonment issues your twin will bring them out you will feel abandoned. Were you jealous, clingy or insecure in past relationships? All this will surface too. Did you feel ignored as child then your twin will ignore you. This is all for your highest good. Your twin is not trying to hurt you they are doing their job. It’s a labor of love that will bring about healing for both of you.

So how do you use the triggers to heal and better yourself. By doing the opposite of what you did in the past in this situation or at least different. You break the cycle by doing different than you did in the past maybe the complete opposite. This is giving you a chance to make 5th Dimensional decisions that benefit both of you and break free from your old 3rd dimensional behaviors and choices. Making choices and decisions for the greater good of yourself and others is 5D behavior. Making decisions to benefit yourself no matter how it affects others is 3D behavior.


Never accept abuse if you feel emotionally, mentally or physically abused leave the relationship. This is not a martyer sitituation. The Universe does not want any harm to come to you. Never stay in any abusive situation.

Love and Light,

Dawn Bailey

My name is Dawn Bailey. I am a magnetic energy worker, lightworker, shaman. My mission is to assist all life on beautiful Gaia ascend. You can find me on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube. and Google+. You can email me at: